As the time of goodwill and celebration draws
ever nearer, we all look forward to sharing memorable moments; the
giving and receiving of heartfelt presents, a time of happiness and
joy despite the gruesome economy, the general feeling of
despondency, and the continuing conflicts across our planet.
In many neighbourhoods
of London - our world's only true international city along with New
York, but perhaps the most cosmopolitan and tolerant city on the
planet - we still have the most difficult 'community' challenges
that it is high time we collectively look to resolve.
In the neighbourhood
I'm from in west London, there are many young people still not
achieving their potential. The causes are well documented, but
perhaps not yet clearly understood, and definitely not widely
accepted. Be it because of a feeling of isolation, a lack of
support from the community at large, low self-esteem, lack of
ambition or perhaps, just absolutely nothing to do; and the
solution cannot possibly come from even more government
cuts.
A life without hope is
no life at all worth waking up for. Otherwise life can start to
become all too expendable and not valued. These are dangerous and
desperate circumstances, and all too prevalent and real in my
neighbourhood. We are not unique in any developed society, but we
have a tremendous opportunity to 'change the game' and vitally the
outcome in London.
Last week there was a
shooting incident that took place on the increasingly tough and
local Mozart Estate. This was sadly not a rare
occurrence.
Desperate times
indeed.
The police were
called at around 4pm to reports of shots fired in the Third Avenue
area, which is in my W10 district of west London. They found
a young man who had received multiple gunshot wounds. He was
taken to a central London hospital. He received three gunshot
wounds, two to the chest and one to the stomach and remains in
a stable but critical condition in hospital.
Just a few days before
Christmas! Goodwill to all men is no longer a universal message
that we all understand or practice.
A cordon was
put in place by the police that has now been removed, but
not before redefining the Christmas season for the adults and
children who had to witness the scene.
No arrests have
yet been made and police enquiries continue. This has become a
regular occurrence in my neighbourhood; with the Mozart estate and
the Kilburn estates consumed in a war which stems back over ten
years. Yet most of the youngsters have no idea why this situation
kicked off all those years ago.
Nobody cares anymore.
If society doesn't care, the gangs become relevant and
oxygenated.
The Kilburn and Mozart
Estates are right next to each other, which 'makes' them
neighbours, a lot like Israel and Palestine. Similar locations,
similar people, similar desires, but a total breakdown in
communication accentuates the differences and forgets the
similarities.
They just cannot live
in harmony, otherwise they feel they will have nothing else to
belong to or feel part of.
Desperate times
indeed.
There have been many
back and forth incidents which have seen a young man get killed
locally, in Scrubs Lane in 2008. Then in retaliation, another young
man was also killed outside the local KFC in 2010. There have been
many kidnappings and violent incidents which show no signs of
slowing down.
Even in Her Majesty's
Prison's, the gangs are violently and relentlessly attacking each
other.
Desperate times
indeed.
What makes a young
teenager carry a gun, sell drugs or commit robbery? What are the
police and government doing to help the situation?
Do we need deterrents
and punishment? Of course, but they need to make a tangible
positive difference. Currently, it's not working. In fact, just
'locking people up' doesn't cease the flow of available volunteers
who don't fear incarceration.
Prisoners quickly
become the heroes and 'role models' and galvanise the next
generation of disaffected youth to take the wrong route.
When those same
criminals come out of jail, they go back into the same situation,
in the same environment, as that is all they know. Even if they
wanted a job, the majority of local companies will never consider
hiring an ex-felon.
There are no
progressive arrangements for rehabilitation or for positively
connecting back into the community, or even just a support network
that cares and connects.
Desperate times
indeed.
This is not just about
my neighbourhood alone, as we have seen this with our servicemen
returning from risking their lives for our nation in Afghanistan
and Iraq, and they experience equal neglect. The disproportionate
and tragic number of suicides and wrecked relationships our
servicemen experience, perhaps point to this being a failure in a
society that has become a little too complacent, selfish and less
inclusive.
Desperate times
indeed.
We all understand and
accept (in the main), the need for austerity measures in these
uncertain and difficult times, but unthinking and uncaring
universal government cuts will only feed rising crime rates. Drug
distribution does not naturally recognise a recession, if anything
it will make drug users purchase even more as they look to escape
from the desperately hard life of struggling in an inner
city.
With spiralling costs
and income being cut, it's a huge struggle for hard working people
with decent jobs, let alone the poorest people with only a bleak
future in the tough confines of the inner city.
Whilst feeling
naturally comfortable recently in my training camp in New York
City. Brooklyn served to remind me so much of my local
environment in London. With all the hustling and the 'hard knocks'
life going on around me, it kept me hungry and focused on
constantly continuing to try to make something of my
life.
It also served to
remind me that my surroundings and environment in London were not
unique.
I have walked in many
of these kids and young adults' shoes. Where we saw no hope and the
only realistic way to make money is to commit crimes, sell drugs
and disobey our helpless parents.
Many people die, go to
jail or just end up 'down and out', but it is that "Get rich or Die
tryin" attitude, which 50 Cent exploded into the Hip-Hop scene
talking about.
Many danced and sang
along, unfortunately, very few really understood or
cared.
Many of us from poor
disadvantaged backgrounds understand that view point. Far too many
of us have no visible alternative, and consequently, live by this
motto.
Desperate times
indeed.
I put the same
dedication and focus into my boxing that many drug dealers put into
their street hustle. What you put in, is what you get out. I have
something inside me that drives me more than most boxers. I came
from a desperately poor environment, I got expelled, and I went to
prison. I was seen as a 'no hope' prospect.
Seeing my mother
remain positive, work relentlessly and watch her pennies whilst
raising my brother and I, has energised me and put a 'towering
inferno' of a fire in my belly to be the very best I can
be.
Being expelled from
school didn't stop me from finishing my education. I went to
college and passed my GNVQ in Leisure and Tourism, and then I
completed a BTEC Media course.
I am also a qualified
personal fitness trainer, strength conditioner, nutritionist
and dietician. If I didn't turn professional, I would have
definitely went to University; as my teachers encouraged and begged
me to go, as they saw me cruise through my studies where others in
my class struggled.
Even though I went to
prison, it has not been enough to make me give up and perhaps take
the more predictable and obvious route. I'm still fixated on being
the best that I can be - and make my mum even prouder.
Too many people think
because they are born in a poor and disadvantaged environment,
means that you will fail and have no chance of achieving
anything.
I'm living proof that
you can achieve anything you want to, if you work as hard and as
consistently as you can; the opportunity will eventually
materialise and you will be hungry and ready to take it.
Maybe it is much
harder for those of us from disadvantaged backgrounds to deliver,
but so what? To work hard against the odds, achieve your dreams and
fulfil your desires is what life is all about.
It is called
living! And we all deserve that at the very least.
It hurts me to see so
many talented and decent kids end up in jail, but this is the world
we currently live in, and I
unfortunately cannot see this situation changing for
now.
Desperate times
indeed.
All Stars Boxing Gym
has been situated on the Harrow Road in west London, for nearly
thirty years, and it has saved so many and brought so much
happiness and hope to so many kids, teenagers and adults
lives.
We need more places
like this.
All Stars founder, Mr
Akay has rightly been awarded an MBE amongst many other awards.
This man, I'm privileged and honoured to call my mentor, is a
shining example that if you want to achieve something - work hard,
believe and it will come to fruition.
Impossible is just a
word. Making the impossible, possible is the real beauty and reward
of life.
Let's all commit to
work hard and harmoniously together to ensure that 2012 delivers
'Peace and Prosperity' for all those who share our fabulous city of
London.
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